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Where the wind blows on Mon Dec 11, 2006 9:57 am

somefatguy

Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 1187

This can be recognized as my future goodbye.

If it wasn't for my promise to stay here, I would be gone right now. I'm done with the internet. I haven't completely decided yet but, I may leave everything. Once Psipog is closed, I may no longer even be on AIM, MSN or any of that. I may not even go to Peebrain's new site.

I have failed. Failed a friend, failed myself. I must leave to find myself.

This is all not definite, but it sure does seem the right way to go.

Who cares anyways?

EDIT: But as I said in my "Thank you" thread: Thank you guys. It's been nice.
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Posted on Mon Dec 11, 2006 8:21 pm

Tankdown

Joined: 10 Aug 2006
Posts: 688

Its been nice to me also. Thanks for shareing. Very Happy
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Posted on Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:33 pm

sgtpsion

Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 425

Although I would be unjustified in asking you to stay, but my love for you as a Psi brother drives me to ask you why you've failed.

We all fail at some point, and some failures are greater than others. Yet forgiveness is availible for all failures and misdeeds. PM me if you want to know more about this forgiveness.

But if you do cement and solidify your decision to leave us, please, don't forget us, and continue your practice and training in Psi. You've been one of us for a while, and you're one of the best of us. To lose that bond would be to fail all of us, and yourself.

But above all, walk your path, and befriend as many of those who walk the same path as you can. Honour them as much as you can. Forgive and love freely, and sincerely and humbly ask forgiveness when you falter.

Take care of yourself, my friend. I will remember you.
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Posted on Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:45 pm

somefatguy

Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 1187

sgtpsion wrote:
Although I would be unjustified in asking you to stay, but my love for you as a Psi brother drives me to ask you why you've failed.

We all fail at some point, and some failures are greater than others. Yet forgiveness is availible for all failures and misdeeds. PM me if you want to know more about this forgiveness.

But if you do cement and solidify your decision to leave us, please, don't forget us, and continue your practice and training in Psi. You've been one of us for a while, and you're one of the best of us. To lose that bond would be to fail all of us, and yourself.

But above all, walk your path, and befriend as many of those who walk the same path as you can. Honour them as much as you can. Forgive and love freely, and sincerely and humbly ask forgiveness when you falter.

Take care of yourself, my friend. I will remember you.


Thank you, very wise words indeed. I appreciate it. I am in no means offended by you asking me to stay. As I said, I am only in the process of deciding anyways..

My failure is complicated. I don't even understand it. I'm sorry though, the only way I can deal with this is to stay away from all others. There is a problem that has been pointed out to me...and I need to fix it. I want to fix it. But I don't know how and I lost a friend to give me advice. He doesn't call me a friend but I do, what he did makes him a friend enough. (you know who you are Wink)

Of course I will not forget such a great experience. I would be a fool to do so. I don't see it even possible to forget of such wonderful people.

I love you all. Thank you Crying or Very sad
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Posted on Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:54 pm

Felix_the_Cat

Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 177

Ditch the drama and go see a therapist.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:05 am

somefatguy

Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 1187

Felix_the_Cat wrote:
Ditch the drama and go see a therapist.


Yes, I tried to avoid that. But who says drama is bad?

I don't like talking to people like that. Nor do I have the money to do so. I will just meditate, it's the only thing I can do to help.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:14 am

sgtpsion

Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 425

Way to be a total ass about it. He's having hard times; we all do. It's not your place to tell him to go to therapy as much as it's not my place to demand he stay!

Chill out Felix. Give people some leeway, and taste your words before you let them fall out of your mouth.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:39 am

Felix_the_Cat

Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 177

sgtpsion wrote:
Way to be a total ass about it. He's having hard times; we all do. It's not your place to tell him to go to therapy as much as it's not my place to demand he stay!

Chill out Felix. Give people some leeway, and taste your words before you let them fall out of your mouth.


I am speaking from experience.

I don't want to see anyone else make the stupid decisions that marred my youth.

SFG, just remember: perspective is key. What seems like the end of the world today will be simply another minor trouble tomorrow, and what is a minor trouble tomorrow is forgotten in a year.

Who says drama is bad? Well, what good comes of it? It takes small mistakes, errors, or events, blows them out of proportion, and uses them to hurt people. It causes negative effects that far outweigh whatever benefit it might have to offer. The only people that drama is good for are those who stand on the sidelines and laugh at all the poor dramatic fools. Other than that, drama is a no-win situation. Really. It's silly. (Believe me, I'm a gay guy... I've had too much experience with drama. Thankfully I usually have the capacity for clear thinking and am usually one of the ones pointing and laughing, or helping to rescue people from whatever messes they have gotten themselves into. I'm trying to do the latter here.)

Remember the title of a famous book: don't sweat the small stuff - and it's all small stuff.

Also, nobody gives a shit what happens on the Internet. Really. The Internet has the attention span of a 2 year old, and the memory of a goldfish. (Alternatively, the Internets is serious f*cking business!)
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 9:31 am

somefatguy

Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 1187

Felix_the_Cat wrote:
sgtpsion wrote:
Way to be a total ass about it. He's having hard times; we all do. It's not your place to tell him to go to therapy as much as it's not my place to demand he stay!

Chill out Felix. Give people some leeway, and taste your words before you let them fall out of your mouth.


I am speaking from experience.

I don't want to see anyone else make the stupid decisions that marred my youth.

SFG, just remember: perspective is key. What seems like the end of the world today will be simply another minor trouble tomorrow, and what is a minor trouble tomorrow is forgotten in a year.

Who says drama is bad? Well, what good comes of it? It takes small mistakes, errors, or events, blows them out of proportion, and uses them to hurt people. It causes negative effects that far outweigh whatever benefit it might have to offer. The only people that drama is good for are those who stand on the sidelines and laugh at all the poor dramatic fools. Other than that, drama is a no-win situation. Really. It's silly. (Believe me, I'm a gay guy... I've had too much experience with drama. Thankfully I usually have the capacity for clear thinking and am usually one of the ones pointing and laughing, or helping to rescue people from whatever messes they have gotten themselves into. I'm trying to do the latter here.)

Remember the title of a famous book: don't sweat the small stuff - and it's all small stuff.

Also, nobody gives a shit what happens on the Internet. Really. The Internet has the attention span of a 2 year old, and the memory of a goldfish. (Alternatively, the Internets is serious f*cking business!)


Just this year, perspective has shown up at my door step. I understand it, and I understand what you are saying.

Am I hurting more people? Hmm, well that's why I'm leaving anyways...

The internet may not be serious, but I do not wish to hurt anymore people. Whether it be in life or on the internet.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 1:25 pm

Felix_the_Cat

Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 177

Fine, go be emo. I'll not stand in your way.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out!
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 1:42 pm

somefatguy

Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 1187

Felix_the_Cat wrote:
Fine, go be emo. I'll not stand in your way.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out!


Hmm, I really respect you, but the way you have been acting, it isn't the easiest thing to do.

I am in no way emo. I dislike anything of the sort.

I thank you for your knowledge, but your petty smart-ass comments were not appreciated.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 7:01 pm

Fakiti

Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Posts: 336

bye sfg i'm sorry you failed someone.
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 7:28 pm

sgtpsion

Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 425

Felix_the_Cat wrote:
I am speaking from experience.

I don't want to see anyone else make the stupid decisions that marred my youth.

SFG, just remember: perspective is key. What seems like the end of the world today will be simply another minor trouble tomorrow, and what is a minor trouble tomorrow is forgotten in a year.

Who says drama is bad? Well, what good comes of it? It takes small mistakes, errors, or events, blows them out of proportion, and uses them to hurt people. It causes negative effects that far outweigh whatever benefit it might have to offer. The only people that drama is good for are those who stand on the sidelines and laugh at all the poor dramatic fools. Other than that, drama is a no-win situation. Really. It's silly. (Believe me, I'm a gay guy... I've had too much experience with drama. Thankfully I usually have the capacity for clear thinking and am usually one of the ones pointing and laughing, or helping to rescue people from whatever messes they have gotten themselves into. I'm trying to do the latter here.)

Remember the title of a famous book: don't sweat the small stuff - and it's all small stuff.

Also, nobody gives a shit what happens on the Internet. Really. The Internet has the attention span of a 2 year old, and the memory of a goldfish. (Alternatively, the Internets is serious f*cking business!)


Ah, I get what you were saying now. It seems if you want to make your honest, justified opinion known, you just need to explain yourself a little. I agree with you completely, now that you're being logical and decent about it. This is the kind of intelligent reasoning and calm, honest explanation I expect from all members of PsiPog, and indeed all members of society. Good on ya!
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Posted on Tue Dec 12, 2006 9:47 pm

bladeslinger

Joined: 10 Feb 2006
Posts: 1337

SomeFatGuy as said before, you are one of the few people I truly respect not only here but out of everyone I know. If you ever feel like talking about anything going wrong or just want to talk, I've got way too much free time and will listen. Smile
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Posted on Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:12 pm

derricktheone

Joined: 29 Jul 2006
Posts: 356

This thread is funny. I'm not going to say things like "I love you", seeing as I don't know who you really are. It was fun talking to you, good luck in life. Way too much philosopher wanna-bees (and drama queens) on this site. *cough sgtpsion *cough. I agree with felix on saving the drama for yo mama. Also sfg if your problem is what you mentioned to me on msn, you are the prime example of making a mountain out of a mole hill. Less than a molehill. I'm in doubt that you really do understand perspective, otherwise you would have no worries, and wouldn't be making this post. The "problems" you have should not even be considered problems.

You have my MSN and email if you want to chat. Buh bye Very Happy .
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