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My ex girl wont fade from my dreams!
My ex girl wont fade from my dreams! on Thu Jun 29, 2006 4:42 am
Lucid_Nightmare Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 33	argh i cant stop dreaming about her! lol.. every night i try to have a lucid dream but suddenly i get a dream about her and i guess im getting distracted from making any RC's becouse oh her pretty butt its happens repeatedly allready a dam week. and i also cannot OBE! instead of being even close to it i fall a sleep and have some dream about her! not that im obssesed about her. i barely think about her in reality i hope ill get a lucid dream in the middle of this dam dream and then ill be free to tortue her
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Posted on Thu Jun 29, 2006 5:26 am
maxus Joined: 13 Jun 2006 Posts: 851	Easy, find another girl, or forget about this one.
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Posted on Thu Jun 29, 2006 6:09 am
Lucid_Nightmare Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 33	hehe in my case its a lil bit complicated im testing the girls that i date with wisely before i pick them im kinda hmm wierd so the girls have to be wierd , symphatic , pretty , unreligious , and they have to like the music genre that i do so its not so easy to find a mate for me
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Posted on Thu Jun 29, 2006 11:21 am
sparkz Joined: 02 Feb 2006 Posts: 664	Perhaps you should talk to her again and get some closure. you're probably having dreams about her because your sub conscious grew attached to her. If you can get some closure then maybe the dreams will stop.
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Posted on Thu Jun 29, 2006 4:18 pm
Redifin Joined: 03 Feb 2006 Posts: 56	Or do an RC whenever you see your girlfriend and have a lucid dream the next dream about her. Think of it as an oppurtunity.
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Posted on Thu Jun 29, 2006 4:51 pm
Lucidess Joined: 20 Apr 2006 Posts: 837	I get the exact same thing. I know, it sucks the crap. I haven't done anything about it, cept just dream about it and think nothing more of it. If it's causing so much pain though, then.. distract yourself with someone else. Sure you can date girls, but i'm assuming you had your ex for longer than a few months. They stick in yer head ;P ah well.
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hmm on Mon Jul 03, 2006 10:24 am
EndOfAllHopes Joined: 27 Apr 2006 Posts: 18	I think have the same problem, though mine is much more severe: In most of my dreams (for years already) the DC's are from my junior high school, that's mean ppl I don't care about/ didn't see for 4-5 years, yet they constantly reappearing in my dreams. It doesn't bother me much, but I think it's weird...
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Posted on Mon Jul 03, 2006 2:53 pm
bladeslinger Joined: 10 Feb 2006 Posts: 1337	I'm having something like that.....I was trying to OBE, fell asleep and had two precogs(they felt like precogs)about two girls who are involved in similars ways to me and after that I was ,involuntarily, always thinking about one of them..it's annoying.
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Posted on Mon Jul 03, 2006 3:36 pm
pepsiboy Joined: 25 Jun 2006 Posts: 562	what you should do if you wish ... is.. .close your eyes and pretend you are in a dream. maybe your memory is so vivid of the dream that you can see it again once you close your eyes.. simply get this feeling and show her the door or kick her out whatever you want... and she will leave.
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Posted on Wed Jul 05, 2006 3:25 pm
Kinji Joined: 25 Jun 2006 Posts: 6	I had the same problem... lasted a long while after we broke up. First time being in love; just couldn't get over this girl. Finally, after a lot of thinking, I realized that while we were together that I gave so much of myself that perhaps that part is still attached. I did a visualization/mediation of of pulling that part of me back from her and returning it to myself. shrug Hope this doesn't seem to weird for you, but it worked for me. Although I wasn't able to fully recover all of what I had given to her, I have been able to find a sense of peace since then. I wish her now ill will... you said you want to torture her? I don't think throwing her out the door is the answer.. never worked for me. More about finding peace with yourself and allowing you let go of her. Maybe you are more attached to her than you realize.
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Posted on Fri Jul 07, 2006 2:21 pm
xforever Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 54	Hmmm, when I was younger, I always had a dream about me missing the bus I drew a picture of me missing the bus and crumpled it up, ripped it, and threw it away. I guess it tells your brain not to dream about it any more. I haven't had a dream like it since. Try the same thing, except with your EX
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Posted on Sat Jul 08, 2006 10:46 pm
Niushirra Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 299	Make a psi ball really vividly and put her psi sig and a lot of other memories and things you know about he in it. Then like blow it up or just let it go away and forget about it. This should tell your subconscious that these thoughts and this person is not a very important thing anymore and to stop bring it up to you.
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